Distance yourself
The best thing that
you can do right now is to stay away from her. I know that this may seem
counter-intuitive, how can you get her back if you are not in her life anymore?
This is where you are wrong. When you take yourself away from your ex
girlfriend, she will soon notice that you have gone. When you are in a relationship
with someone you get used to spending all of your time with them. They are your
confidante and become your best friend. When you suddenly take that away from
her, she will pine for you and all the positive aspects of your relationship.
The beauty of this tactic is that you do not have to do very much to make it
happen, you just have to make sure that you follow through for it to work.
Try your best to not
communicate with her for at least a month. This may seem like an eternity to
you and time will go slowly, there is no point in pretending, but it will get
easier. No communication does mean any form of contact, this includes facebook,
texts, or any form of direct or indirect contact. You can't be updating your
facebook wall every day either, telling everyone what you are doing. The key
here is to completely disappear off her radar. This will create an air of
mystery around you and she will be constantly wondering about what you are
doing and who you are doing it with.
Play on her emotions
Men and women are
very different when it comes to emotions. Women are emotional creatures and
they consequently think with their hearts. If you can play upon her emotions
and romantic side, she will soon succumb to your charms again and start seeing
you in a positive light. You just need to push the right buttons to be
successful here. A good idea would be to remind her of special memories between
you both. Obviously you don't want to lay it on too thick as she will think
that you are up to something, be natural and sincere.
It is a good idea to
do the above after you have not contacted her for a while, then she will be a
lot more receptive to talking about your past together. She will likely have
been reminiscing herself after the break up and starting to miss the times that
you spent together. Therefore you have to make it a positive experience,
introduce humour, pick a funny moment that you can both be in stitches over.
This will be sure to fire her attraction for you and get her back.
Do the opposite of what she
expects you to do
If she is the one
that broke up with you, you cannot lose your self respect in front of her. She
may very well expect you to plead and beg to take you back, or at the very
least, seem sad about your split. When you do not give her what she wants she
will become confused and start questioning her decision to break up with you.
If you can be strong enough to not give in when she texts you and reply
immediately, you will rise in her estimation. You want her to respect you
again, this is the basis of all good relationships, so stick to your guns here.
At the same time, don't be rude to her or say nasty things, this will close the
channels for communication entirely and she will feel like you do not want her
anymore.
Be the kind of person that she
will miss
Let's face it. We
will not miss someone who is a pain to be around, will we? To be honest, we
will want to avoid them at all costs. If you are acting miserably and are
depressed about the break up, she will not really want to deal with this and
see you as rather pathetic. I know that it sounds harsh, but you have to think
about how you will appear from her perspective. Of course you have every reason
to be unhappy at the moment, but make sure that you deal with it in private so
that she does not see it.
Women are attracted
to men who are fun and have a good sense of humour. Let her know that you are
still this incredible person by getting out there and living your life. When
she sees that you can get through things without her, she will start to get
frightened and realise that she is actually the one that needs you. Be positive
in your dealings with her and everyone around you as this will rub off on her
and make her miss you a lot.
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